By Abdullahi Jamaa
My daughter Husna was yearning for my attention while I was busy working. Casually, I told her, “Daddy, fear Allah, do not disturb me while I am working.” She nodded and said, “Okay, Daddy, let me not disturb you,” and walked away.
After a while, she returned and whispered in my ear, “Daddy, I am scared of Allah.” Her statement took me by surprise. I probably had a look of horror on my face, but she couldn’t see it as I was turned the other way.
That moment made me realise that I had used the wrong approach to introduce my daughter to Allah. I had to quickly think about how to explain this fundamental aspect of faith to her, a six-year-old, and to other children like her.
Since then, I have pondered how to introduce her to the first pillar of faith: belief in Allah. I wanted her to understand who Allah is, why we worship Him alone, and His names and attributes. But how could I break it down for her?
Teaching Tawheed within the family and community is an absolute obligation because it is the foundation of Islam. Parents serve as role models for their children, and Islam emphasises that they must guide their families towards righteousness. One of the primary responsibilities of parents is to educate their children about Tawheed. But the billion-dollar question remains—how?
Understanding a Child’s Natural Disposition
It is essential to recognise that children are born with a natural inclination towards faith. Their pure and blessed intuition fosters an innocent connection with their Creator. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) highlighted this natural faith in authentic hadith:
“Every child is born with a true faith of Islam (i.e., to worship none but Allah alone), and his parents convert him to Judaism, Christianity, or Paganism.”
This means that the job is already halfway done for parents. They have an easier path in introducing Tawheed to their children. The key is to create opportunities for observation and meaningful discussions about the Creator and His creations.
A parent can initiate a conversation by pointing out the beauty of nature—lush greenery, the vast blue sky, and the perfection of creation, all signs of Allah’s greatness. Holding a child’s hand while observing these wonders encourages reflection. Parents can ask, “Who else could create such marvellous things?” The answer is always Allah.
A child can also reflect on their own body—their hands, legs, and fingers—and how each organ plays a crucial role. By fostering gratitude and encouraging daily prayers, children develop an appreciation for Allah’s artistry and blessings.
Teaching Acts of Worship
Worshipping Allah alone is the most important aspect of Islamic faith, bringing Tawheed into practice. Known as Tawheed Uluhiyyah, it encompasses: Directing all acts of worship to Allah alone, Sincerely hoping for His rewards, Fearing His punishment, Loving Allah above all else and relying upon Allah and seeking help from Him alone.
Introducing children to acts of worship should align with the Sunnah of the Prophet (PBUH). For instance, the Prophet taught young Ibn Abbas that when making dua, he should ask Allah alone for help.
As for practical worship, children must learn wudhu and salah from an early age to establish a lifelong habit. The Prophet (PBUH) emphasised the importance of prayer in childhood:
“Command your children to pray when they become seven years old, and discipline them for it when they become ten years old; and arrange their beds separately.” (Abu Dawood)
This hadith underscores the importance of consistency and discipline in prayer education. Parents should encourage children to perform the five daily prayers and establish a routine, making worship a natural part of their lives.
Parental Role Modelling
Every parent dreams of raising a virtuous child. A pious child not only brings joy in this world but also benefits their parents in the Hereafter. The key to instilling a love for Islam is through parental example.
Children observe and imitate their parents. If they see their mother and father engaged in prayer, reading the Quran, and practising good deeds, they will naturally adopt these habits. Islam should be integrated fully into daily life so that children absorb its teachings effortlessly.
Parents should perform all acts of worship without fail, instilling discipline in the home. When children see their parents prioritising salah, reciting dua, and engaging in charity, they will be inclined to do the same. The environment in which a child grows plays a vital role in shaping their character.
The Role of Education
Authentic Islamic education is crucial in raising a righteous Muslim child. Parents should prioritise both religious and academic education, ensuring their children receive comprehensive guidance.
Enrolling children in Quranic learning centres provides them with the opportunity to study the Quran and gain deeper Islamic knowledge. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:
“The best among you are those who learn the Quran and teach it to others.” (Bukhari)
Parents must actively participate in their child’s religious education, teaching them to read the Quran and understand its message. Neglecting this responsibility would be a missed opportunity, given the immense rewards of Quranic education.
Teaching Tawheed to children is a sacred duty that requires patience, wisdom, and the right approach. By nurturing their innate belief in Allah, engaging them in meaningful discussions, encouraging acts of worship, and being exemplary role models, parents can successfully instill a strong Islamic foundation in their children.
May Allah guide us in raising righteous children who remain steadfast in their faith. Ameen.
